Thursday, August 25, 2011

HOW DO I LOOK?





One thing that has been bugging me lately with NIGERIANS and relationships is that some are based solely on the PHYSICAL APPEARANCE.
So I was talking with one of my guy friends last week and just because we are close, we usually talk about relationships. Anyways he asked if I was in a relationship and I said NO of course cause I'm not( its kinda sad :-(....oh well ) and he was finding it very difficult to believe that a "fine gal" like me is still single. My nosy self decided to ask what he meant by that and his only response was that "I'm a pretty girl so there is no reason for me to be single". I BUSTED OUT LAUGHING!!!! since when did it become looks that get you a man/woman. I mean it plays a role in the level of attraction you feel towards the opposite sex but I don't think it should be what determines if you in a relationship or not. My friend didn't even ask if I wanted to be in a relationship but that's not the case. BTW, this my friend told me that he will definitely go for a fine babe anyday no matter what ( it shows where his focus his)...Anyways, you probably wondering.... so what does this have to do with NIGERIANS? I know with some naija people that I have spoken with, if the man/woman don't match up to some level of fineness, then the person gets looked at twice or gets ignored completely ( been guilty a few times). A lot of Nigerians care too much about what other people think about their significant other that it has now put "physical features" as part of the top requirements in a relationship. It has gotten to the point IMO where a lot of people (male & female) let go of a perfectly capable man/woman just because he/she is not up to the family/friends standards...like who cares man!!!!!
My mom and I usually go for a walk together in the evening and during our last one, we had the "relationship talk", while discussing, my mom specifically told me the kind of guy she wants me to marry (can you imagine...lol); apart from being God-fearing, educated etc, she mentioned that another important factor was his looks....I was like WTH, are you kidding me. Since when did physical appearance matter..... and she is def not the only one pestering my life about marrying a good looking and TALL guy, it is as if she got my whole family(extended included) in a cult to be telling me the same BS. To me sha, I can care less if you got the GQ look or if you the "average joe", what matters is that you are capable to care for me and LOVE me. Good looks will just be a bonus. By God's grace we will make beaurriful babies IJN...lol but what would you choose; LOOKS or CHARACTER.


Till Next Time; Don't Dull
Tola & Tope

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Will Smith & Jada Pinkett SPLITTING??

This is must be a bloody lie!
OMG! So apparently, Will and Jada are calling it splits after 13 years of marriage, which by Hollywood standards, is a lifetime. But they just seemed like the perfect couple, didn't they? No word on the reasons yet.

They have two children together, Jaden and Willow. Will has a son from a previous marriage, Trey.

So who's next, Michelle and Obama?

Till Next Time, Don't Dull!
Tola&Tope

Saturday, August 20, 2011

Hollywood's Richest Teens

According to Forbes, the richest teen couple goes to Justin Bieber, 17, and Selena Gomez, 19. She earned an estimated $5.5 million last year, while he earned a stroke-inducing $53 million. E lowo noni.

Richest Rockstar: Nick Jonas, 18- $12.5 million
Richest TV star: Angus T. Jones, 17, from Two and a Half Men- $7.8 million
Richest Movie Star: Taylor Lautner, 19- $16 million
Richest Teen Queen: Miley Cyrus, 18- $15 million

I will now go and examine my life and what needs to be done.

Till Next Time, Don't Dull!
Tola&Tope

Boko Haram kills 3 Policemen


According to 234next, members of the Islamic extremist group broke into the house of one of the officers in the Northeast town of Maiduguri and killed three policemen and a civilian.
Boko Haram, whose name roughly translated in Hausa means "Western Education is a Sin", has been terrorizing the state of Bornu for months.

"The Boko Haram members burst into the residence of one of the policemen when three of them and the civilian were watching television and opened fire, killing all of them instantly," Simeon Midenda, Borno state police commissioner, told reporters.
"The sect members have been watching our success at foiling all their efforts so they have changed tactics and have resorted to attacking our personnel at their residences."

This is truly a sad thing, may the dead officers rest in peace. Hopefully, this will encourage the government to do something about these animals, killing so heartlessly.
May God help Nigeria

Tola&Tope

Friday, August 19, 2011

MOHITS OLIVER TWIST COMPETITION



PLEASE BRING YOUR TALENTS!!!!!

HERE IS HOW TO ENTER FROM DIRECTLY FROM MoHits:

"To participate simply record a video clip of yourself or your group dancing/jonzing, upload to YouTube and email the link to oliver@mohitsrecords.com

The videos will be judged based on how entertaining they are. You don't have to be Michael Jackson.. LOL

PRIZES

1st: $2500

2nd: $2000

3rd: $1500

4th: $1000

5th: $500

Top 10 entries will be part of the Official Oliver video

Top 50 gets a FREE Koko Mobile Handset

So put on your dancing shoes and lets have fun with this!!!"

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Tola & Tope

YOU GOTTA LOVE MAMA G

Nollywood Actress Patience Ozokwor (MAMA G) has done it again. This lady refuse to quit. She is talented and this movie; plus many other got me wanting more of MAMA G.

Her latest movie is called OFE OWERRI SPECIAL and if you need a good laugh, this is a MUST SEE!!!!













I know it has been FOREVER since my last post but I needed to adapt to some new changes in my life and plan everything accordingly and I'm very grateful to have a wonderful partner (OroboTohBadd) that has been more than supportive and understanding.


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Tola & Tope

Thursday, August 18, 2011

Halle Berry Turns 45!

Wow!
The actress celebrated this milestone with friends and family at a Malibu beach birthday bash. Congrats babe! Keep smiling :)

Till Next Time, Don't Dull!
Tola&Tope

Growing Up Naija: Trading Insults


Loool, this video brings back so much memories, now I find myself calling my oyinbo friends "bombastical element".

Reminds me of some of the insults in my school; "Your Medulla Oblongata is not functioning", "Specimen of no species", "Bloody Bagah!", "Ur head like unripe banana", and so much more that i can't remember.

PLx share insults you learnt growing up in Naij, look forward to hearing from you :)
Till Next Time, Don't Dull!
Tola&Tope

Tiwa Savage, Waje, Lami, and ChyDynma Grace Genevieve Magazine Cover



The Harmonious Four grace the cover of Genevieve Magazine's August 2011 issue. I think the girls look really great but I gotta say the positioning seems a bit off, Waje is just towering over Lami. But I love their outfits and the thought behind the cover.

*And now, I will go back to watching The Kardashians*

Till Next Time, Don't Dull!
Tola&Tope

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

$39,000 Backpack! For WHAT????

Ashley, Mary-Kate
According to Fashinista.com, Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen were spotted at Barney's celebrating the launch of their new line of luxury handbags for The Row, which is their fashion label.

One of those bags is a $39,000 crocodile backpack. *Heart Attack*
Can we all agree this bag is ugly
#Toomuchmoney, #problem'showtospendit.....LOL
Someone said it must have $38,960 in cash inside haha
Till Next Time, Don't Dull!
Tola&Tope

The Misadventures Of An Awkward Black Girl- Episode 2&3


So, I brought you guys the first episode of ABG and I wanted to show you episode 2&3. There are 7 webisodes in total and you can watch em on YouTube.



Episode 3 after the jump

RELENTLESS - COMING TO CINEMAS SOON!


Woohoooo, the excitement is spreading through my veins!
I did a post last year about movies that I really wanted to see, click here.
Here is the trailer for you all that don't know
But yeah, according 234NEXT, Andy Amadi Okoroafor's directorial debut wil soon be making rounds around Cinemas in Nigeria. It has been screened in the London Film Festical and the African International Film Festival in Port Harcourt. There was also a private screening on July .27th, 2011 in Silverbird Cinemas.

The film stars Gideon Okeke as the main character. Supporting casts include singer Nneka Egbuna (this will be her first movie), Jimmy Jean Louis, Zarah Udofia, Jibola Dabo, and more.

The movie synopsis after the jump

Monday, August 15, 2011

Jay Z & Kanye West - Otis Video


This is the first video from their album, Watch The Throne (which was amazing btw). The song is Otis ft. Otis Redding, and these guys were just having fun mehn. 
Can you spot Aziz Ansari in the black tux?


Till Next Time, Don't Dull!
Tola&Tope

Aso-Oke Galore! - KemkemStudio A/W 2011/12 Collection

Jessica Alba Welcomes Baby Girl

Jessica Alba has just given birth to her second child with husband, Cash Warren, and it's a girl!
Her name is Haven Garner Warren.
The actress posted on her Facebook page on Saturday
Cash and I are so excited to announce the birth of our daughter, Haven Garner Warren. She was born on Saturday, weighed 7lbs, and was 19 inches long. Healthy and Happy! Big Sister, Honor couldn't be more excited about the new addition to the family.
Thank you for all your support during my pregnancy. It means the world to me.
We are so happy for her and her bundle of joy, may God continue to bless her abundantly!

Till Next Time, DOn't Dull!
Tola&Tope
 

Sunday, August 14, 2011

Some-Pretty-Ridiculous-Music-Videos Part 2

Badoskilolo aka Baddest guy
With such good reception of the first part, I decided why not just show you guys some more 'intersting' music videos. Enjoy! :)

"What that n****z say?" - Vic. O
Next up, Cossy Orjiakor with her song, Me & You.


Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you, Speed Darlington, and yes he's Nigerian unfortunately.

Till Next Time, Don't Dull!
Tola&Tope

CHELSEA 1&2- GHANAIAN MOVIE


In the first scene, Marlon (John Dumelo) is telling his secretary, whom he's been sleeping with, that he's had enough of her and so, he's firing her. In the next scene, Sly (Majid Michel) is telling his ex-girlfriend, Kay, why they can't get back together and the reason is that he is in love/obsessed with this particular girl in his dreams. He is so sure she is real and proceeds to show her a painting of the dream girl and you can recognition dawn on her face.

Meet Laser Drake

Lol, well Laser Drake is the teddy bear someone got me for my bday :). Never had a teddy as far as I can remember, so I'm curious to see how I will take care of this beauty but I'm excited!!!!
As for his name, Laser is just cos I think it's a cool name, 'twas that or Spike. Then Drake is after one of my fav rappers...and it goes well with Laser.
Oh and hope y'all notice his leopard print hat, cute!

Till Next time, Don't Dull!
Tola&Tope

Retta- Kolo For You(Official Video)

My people, how body? Shey una dey kampe? I know this is late for some but Happy Sunday! Had a wonderful day myself; went to a new church. Funny Story about that below.

The artiste's name is Retta and I honestly can't describe her sound, it's Soul/Pop-ish with an helpful dose of goosebumps, I swear. Stumbled on her by chance and I was blown.
Check out the video for her first single, directed by Clarence Peters and starring Peter Okoye(PSquare), looking quite yummy ;).

P.S1: If you are scared of the picture above, you are NOT alone.
P.S2: Funny Story: I went to a new church today with a friend and it was awesome!. Then the pastor called for newcomers to come forward and I usually don't stand up cos I hate attention like that. But FFO like me, immediately my friend told me they were giving food to the newcomers, I jumped up like something just pinched my nyash. Only for me to go to the room and see Nature Valley and water. Don't get me wrong, I was quite appreciative, I even took some with me, but I was expecting some Jollof Rice with fried beef and plantain. I even let my imagination include moin-moin, haha. Now, all I can pray is that i will not get sold for food. Do you ever get like that because of food? Plx let me know oh!

Till Next Time, Don't Dull!
Tola&Tope

Thursday, August 11, 2011

To My Tope(OroboTohBaddd)

I have been thinking if I should or should not put this post up but finally here it is. I just want to apologize for not making it to the movies yesterday after all your hard work (getting the ticket and all). I love you and I promise there will be more than enough opportunities for us to go out. I'm sorry if I made you miss Toni more. Kindly accept my bold apology. I'm really happy to have gotten to know you to this point and I love you. Muah







Till Next Time; Don't Dull
Tola & Tope





Nigerians Doing Big Things! Asa Featured in Teen Vogue

Asa was recently featured in Teen Vogue magazine. So excited!!!!!!

It often seems like the kiss of death to classify an album as "world music"-but that's just what Nigerian-living-in-Paris Bukola "Asa" Elemide's sound is. (Stay with us.) Like anything well-traveled, Beautiful Imperfection draws inspiration from everywhere.

REVIEW: Sleep Walker

The pain frim the past can reallly affect your future!!!! That's exactly what this movie is all about. Genevieve Nnaji (Angel) was the main character. At a young age of 12, her parents were shot dead in her presence and the murderer also raped her mercilessly. After that ordeal, she was placed in a psychiatric hospital where she started sleep walking (hence the title of the movie). Angel is now a grown lady and she is allowing her past to determine her future. After a while, she met the guy that killed her parents and raped her.....the story just started because REVENGE is sweet!!!!!
Enjoy the preview :-)





I must admit the movie is very slow but it was worth it.

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

GUYS! Who Would You Choose???


Check out these Ghanaian beauties! To the left is Nadia Buari, star of Chelsea and Check Mate. To her right is Jackie Appiah, the star of Keep My Love and Perfect Picture.

So who would you choose?
I'm not a guy but if I had to choose, I will say Jackie is prettier.

Till Next Time, DOn't Dull!
Tola&Tope

CRAZY STUPID HAWT!


I watched Crazy Stupid Love with some friends on my bday night, great movie by the way.
And I just wanted to give a shout out to Ryan Gosling, great job preparing for the role, if you know what I mean *insert evil grin* lol.

Till Next Time, Don't Dull!
Tola&Tope

All's Fair in Love and New Movie, Two Brides and a Baby

This is a new movie directed by Teco Benson and written by Blessing Effiom-Egbe. It stars Stella Damasus, OC Ukeje, Chelsea Eze, Kalu Ikeagwu and Keira Hewatch.

Check out the trailer:

The trailer looks like the movie will really be nothing new but i am just hoping hte movie proves me wrong because they got some real talent in this movie, including OC *swoons*

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Tola&Tope

Monday, August 8, 2011

MOVIE WATCH: Sleep Walker



I'm yet to finish this movie but so far so good. Its another one of GN's classic movies so give it a try.

Review coming up soon :-)


Till Next Time; Don't Dull
Tola & Tope

Sunday, August 7, 2011

RIP Sam Loco Efe

Nollywood veteran, Sam Loco Efe, has been reportedly found dead in Owerri where he was filming a movie.
He and his wild comedic antics will be missed dearly.
May his soul rest in eternal peace.

Tola&Tope

Jahbless-Jooor ft. IcePrince, Reminisce, Durella, Ruggedman & eLDee- Video

This song is my new obssession and I felt like I should share. It's Hilarious! And all the rappers went hard on the track.

IMO, eLDee had the best lines here and he had that swaggalicious delivery. Btw, the song got nominated for two 2011 Headies.

Now, I have to get ready for church, there is no way I'm skipping church on my birthday, see ya, cash ya, larer!

Till Next Time, Don't Dull!
Tola&Tope

Nomination List for The Headies


The Headies, formerly known as The Hip Hop World Awards just released their 2011 nominations list on their website, www.theheadies.com.
Check it out below, Choc Boyz are doing in big!


ALBUM OF THE YEAR
Best album (solo or group) in year under review, that meets judges’ requirements of excellence (in realms as: songwriting, production, rendition and promotion) and acceptability (sales, popularity)
MI2 – M.I
Back From The Future – Sound Sultan
Turning Point – Dr SID
Beautiful Imperfection – Asa
Unstoppable Int’l Edition – 2Face


D'Banj Discusses New Album With Trace Urban

G.O.O.D Music's newest artiste, D'Banj, sits down with Trace Urban in his Brooklyn Studio to discuss his new album and Kanye West.
Check it out below,

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Tola&Tope

MOVIE WATCH: Ties That Bind

Morning peoples! Hope you are all having blessed Sundays, I pray that God may guide our paths for His Glory today.

Ties That Bind is Leila Djansi's new movie, starring Kimberly Elise, Omotola J. Ekeinde, Ama K. Abebrese, John Dumelo and Ebbe Bassey.
It is the story of three women from different walks of life who are united by a similar pain: loss of a child. They come together in a small village where they journey to redemption, love, life and forgiveness.
Check out the trailer, it looks really interesting,
Don't think there's a projected release date yet but it's coming within the next couple of months :)
Source: Ties That Bind via Facebook.

Sadly, I turned 20 today, meaning I'm now officially old. And I also hate celebrating birthdays but I'm grateful for my life and the blessings God has been overdosing me with :). I want to wish my cousin, Toni, who was born on the same day, the best HAPPY BIRTHDAY ever!!!!!! Love my Twin Cousin so so so much <3!

Till Next Time, Don't Dull
Tola&Tope

Saturday, August 6, 2011

The Misadventures Of An Awkward Black Girl

Hey guys, whats up peoples? What it do?! lol, feeling very 'loca' today.
My cousin introduced me to this last night and I had to share-The Misadventures of an Awkward Black Girl. It's like a web series on YouTube about an awkward, funny, black girl, J. I saw it and I thought this girl was me!
Here's the first episode, you should watch it, HILARIOUS!



P.S1 I can't stop singing 'my booty shawts, booty shawts!'
P.S2 My caps lock key wants to give me heart attack, all weapons fashioned against will definitely not prosper. *Deep Breath*

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Tola&Tope

Some-Pretty-Ridiculous-Music-Videos


These are kind of videos that make you think about life and how such... In fact, let the videos do the talking.


CAUTION: SEXUALLY EXPLICIT CONTENT!!!!!!

Hope you all enjoyed :)

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Tola&Tope

Friday, August 5, 2011

Ice Prince: Superstar Video

Here is the brand new video to Ice Prince's follow up smash hit, Superstar. It was directed Katung (of Big Brother Nigeria fame; he won).
I love Ice Prince so much but I don't think he tried in this video. Maybe next time, I hope :)

Till Next Time, Don't Dull!
Tola&Tope

YORUBA MOVIE REVIEW: AYA MI OWON aka MADAM DEAREST 1&2


Without a doubt, this has to be one of my favorite Nigerian movies. Like, OLEKU!(in the words of IcePrince), with all the twists and turns.

I could not find the trailer, which sucks cos I really want you guys to see what I'm talking about but hopefully the review gives you a good idea.

REVIEW
So, this will be hard because I really do not want to spoil it for anyone who hasn't seen it but I will try.
The story starts out focusing on Bukola and her husband, Biodun. They have been childless after so many years of marriage and Bukky is letting it get to her, much to the annoyance of her no-nonsense husband. An unfortunate accident occurs and Biodun is wrongfully blamed for it and sentenced to 85 years in prison. With no prospect of seeing her husband again, Bukola very reluctantly begins an affair with her Ghanaian houseboy, Kofi and they fall in love with each other. She bears a child for him, naming the son, Kofi Junior.

Their happy life becomes disrupted when Biodun comes back home unexpectedly from prison. He was released only three years into his jail sentence. In her confused state, she claims Junior is actually Biodun's son.
"The world of the employee crumbles and this starts the greatest cover-up of all battles."

It was produced and directed by TADE Ogidan, the award winning director of Dangerous Twins(still haven't seen that movie smh). It has an all-star cast of Opeyemi Ayeola, Sola Shobowale, Yemi Solade, Lanre Balogun, Buki Ajayi, and Remi Oshodi.

Conclusion
This movie will make you cry, laugh and have you on the edge of your seat(very corny, I know). But honestly, it has a very interesting storyline and it makes one think of what could have been done differently in certain situations, what would happen if Bukola had stood her ground and not followed her friend's advice, e.t.c? This movie was TOUGH! All the actors did fantastic jobs.

On a downside though, while it was good and all, I gotta say there were too many time-wasting scenes, so much so that there are two parts, 3 CD's in one part. The last CD was even a narration of all that had been happening. It was very unnecessary and I hope Mr. Ogidan will learn.

Till Next Time, Don't Dull!
Tola&Tope



MOVIE REVIEW: Keeping Faith

Such an hawezome movie yo, lol. What an intro.
Ok, so this movie is classic! It stars Genevieve Nnaji, RMD, Funlola Aofiyebi Raimi, Bimbo Akintola, Joke Silva and more. It was directed by Steve Gukas and produced by Ego Boyo.

Here is a clip of the opening scene
The story is about Nadine (GN) who is in a relationship with Simi. She wants more commitment from him but refuses to take her friends' advice and use 'Jazz' on him. As Funlola's character says, "The charm makes love grow." Lol. Things end badly when she surprises Simi with a visit and finds out that he just recently got married. She becomes depressed and all, immersing herself in a new contract her company had won from Mr. Sampra Princely(RMD). Sampra expresses that he has feelings for Nadine.

After a bit of toasting, she decides to open her heart, and start dating Sampra, with the hurt of her previous relationship still in her mind. She reluctantly succumbs to using 'Jazz' on Sampra. The true test of the relationship comes when Sampra finds the charms in his bedroom...

Acting
Loved every bit of it, Genevieve played the young naive girl perfectly. I just loved how you can relate to her character and it's flaws.
RMD was as smooth as Blue Band butter when he needed to be and when he showed his raw, vulnerable side, you felt his pain.
The romance was a nice story and all, but Nadine's friends really made my day, they were too funny. They were played by Funlola and Bimbo Akintola and I found myself amazed at the talent. The way Funlola kept coming up with statements to justify using 'Jazz' had me stitches ('makes the honeymoon last longer', 'insurance policy')

Storyline
The story was really good. Considering when it came out, it was original and delightful. Though the love scenes seemed too corny at times, it was still bearable and even enjoyable at times.

Conclusion
It is a great movie all round. The dialogue was very believable, the people, even more. Everything came together well and what's more, you get to see a young RMD(fine boy looking sexy) lol.

So, you should let me know what you think oh. Dyu agree with my review or not. If there are movies that you feel should be reviewed, drop a comment.

Till Next time, Don't Dull!
Tola&Tope

Thursday, August 4, 2011

HAPPY BIRTHDAY OBAMA!!!!

Happy Birthday to the President of the United States!!!!!



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Tola & Tope

Monday, August 1, 2011

What Are We? Are We Forever Slaves?


I just finished reading this book called "The Slave Girl" by Buchi Emecheta (good book btw). The novel is about this girl Ojebeta who was the only surviving girl of her parents. She has two older brothers. After their parents death, Ojebeta was sold by her 2nd brother, Jacob, to one of their aunts, Ma Paladaga, in Otu Onitsha(guess that was the big place back then) for about 8 pounds in the hope that Ma Paladaga's son will marry her.
Fast forward several years, she marries a guy called Jacob and they have issues with their children. Traditionalists told them that it was because she belonged to someone else...anyways long story short, Jacob had to pay Ma Paladaga's son back the money Ojebeta's brother took from his mom. The novel ended by Ojebeta saying that she is happy to belong to a new master.

So, WeTalkNaija readers, I got to thinking....as women, are we ever free or do we just change masters????? Don't get me wrong because this is by no means a way to disrespect my fellow women but are we ever free? I think what the novel brought out is an idea that most ladies don't like to think about and that is….. Starting from when we were born, we belonged to our parents and whether we like it or not, except we choose otherwise, we will belong to a man (duh…he paid your bride price). Our parents are our first masters and as we continue to grow older, we get married ……after marriage, don't we then belong to our husbands???? I think whether we like it or not, it’s somewhat true that we are forever "slaves". Not in a derogatory manner but the idea that we are to serve and become submissive makes us one.
In present time, we have many women that have the "I can do bad all by myself" attitude because they refuse to become submissive to any guy (I'm not trying to be religious or anything but that is not how it should be and I have proof) but to my understanding, don't that mean she still belong to her parents???? Help me out here. And just to keep in mind, MEN are to also submit and assist their WOMEN when the time comes (we have def argued  about this). So my question to all of you is that..... When are we (women) free or do we remain forever slaves?????


Till Next Time; Don't Dull
Tola & Tope